No one likes criticism, but encountering some is inevitable, so we need
to learn how to respond in a godly way. Although you might be tempted
to become defensive or angry, remain calm and listen. The words may
hurt, but great benefits come to those who carefully consider what is
said.
If we refuse to accept reproof, we'll limit our potential for
Christlike character development and spiritual growth. Some of life's
best lessons come through difficult experiences. If God allowed the
situation, you can be sure that He wants to use it in transforming you
into His Son's image. Whether the criticism is valid or not, whether
it's delivered with kindness or harshness, your goal should always be to
respond in a way that glorifies the Lord. Remember that you are
responsible only for how you handle yourself, not for how the other
person is acting.
When a criticism comes your way, be quiet and listen until the other
person has finished. Make direct eye contact to show attentiveness and
respect. When your critic finishes, thank him for bringing his concerns
to your attention, and tell him that you will consider what he's said.
Ask the Lord if the accusation is valid. Let Him search your heart and
either affirm your innocence or convict you.
Every rebuke is an opportunity from God. It's a chance to let your
Christian character shine by showing love to your critic. If he is
angrily attacking you, your respect and kindness become a powerful
testimony. Criticism is also an occasion to humble yourself and accept
the Lord's correction.
Dr. Charles Stanley
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