Getting even feels good! That’s why people do it—vengeance temporarily gives them a sense of satisfaction, though it quickly dissipates into regret. Have you ever read one of those invoking psalms? You know, the ones where David called down God’s wrath on someone? “Break their teeth in their mouth, O God!” (Psalm 58:6). While it’s not my life verse, I confess I’ve invoked a curse upon” another on the road or over parking spaces from time to time.
But I’ve learned something else: As I truly pray for people, my heart
begins to change. As I start asking God to bless them, my heart begins
to soften and becomes more Christlike.One of the greatest virtues that
separates Christianity from other belief systems is that we are taught
not to avenge ourselves nor ignore our dissenters.
We are commanded to love our enemies.
This kind of response was virtually unheard of in antiquity. Human nature—then and now—is best summed up in the Old Testament law known as the lex talionis, which prescribed a restricted vengeance of an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth (see Exodus 21). Vengeance limited to fair restitution is one thing, but to bless instead?
Remember, there was a time when you were unlovely, when you rejected Him, when you failed to love others the way He does, and yet Jesus loved and died for you (see Romans 5:8).
While we will feel upset—in the car or the grocery line or in conversation—we can choose to show His compassion, His patience, His humility and tender-heartedness. In this way, we avoid the vanity of vengeance—by the sweetness, the kindness, the respect and wonder of His love.
Prayer
Dear Lord, I confess that I have often acted on my anger and tried to punish other people for hurting me. Please forgive me and help me to love my enemies, trusting that You are more than able to defend me. Please also use me to reach others, regardless of how they treat me, with the Gospel. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.
We are commanded to love our enemies.
This kind of response was virtually unheard of in antiquity. Human nature—then and now—is best summed up in the Old Testament law known as the lex talionis, which prescribed a restricted vengeance of an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth (see Exodus 21). Vengeance limited to fair restitution is one thing, but to bless instead?
Remember, there was a time when you were unlovely, when you rejected Him, when you failed to love others the way He does, and yet Jesus loved and died for you (see Romans 5:8).
While we will feel upset—in the car or the grocery line or in conversation—we can choose to show His compassion, His patience, His humility and tender-heartedness. In this way, we avoid the vanity of vengeance—by the sweetness, the kindness, the respect and wonder of His love.
Prayer
Dear Lord, I confess that I have often acted on my anger and tried to punish other people for hurting me. Please forgive me and help me to love my enemies, trusting that You are more than able to defend me. Please also use me to reach others, regardless of how they treat me, with the Gospel. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.
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